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Madelyn Lee Payne Dunham è stata la nonna materna di Barack Obama.
"Toot" è nata a Peru nel Kansas il 23 ottobre 1922 ed è scomparsa a Honolulu nelle Hawai il 2 novembre del 2008.
Assieme al marito Stanley Armour Dunham allevarono il 44º Presidente degli Stati Uniti fino all'età di dieci anni nel loro appartamento di Honolulu nelle Hawai.
Madelyn visse tutta la vita nel modesto appartamento che vide crescere Barack e morì due giorni prima della di lui elezione.
Madelyn è stata un'appassionata giocatrice di Bridge fin quando, negli ultimi anni della sua vita, le sue precarie condizioni di salute non gli permisero di lasciare troppo spesso la sua casa nella quale si dilettava ad ammirare tutti i programmi televisivi che parlavano della vita politica del nipote.
Barack Obama's grandmother, whose personality and bearing shaped much of the
life of the Democratic presidential contender, has died, Obama announced Monday,
1 day before the election. Madelyn Payne Dunham was 86. Obama announced the news
from the campaign trail in Charlotte, N.C. The joint statement with his sister
Maya Soetoro-Ng said Dunham died peacefully late Sunday night after a battle
with cancer. They said: "She was the cornerstone of our family, and a woman of
extraordinary accomplishment, strength, and humility. She was the person who
encouraged and allowed us to take chances." Obama learned of her death Monday
morning while he was campaigning in Jacksonville, Fla. He planned to go ahead
with campaign appearances. The family said a private ceremony would be held
later. Last month, Obama took a break from campaigning and flew to Hawaii to be
with Dunham as her health declined. Obama said the decision to go to Hawaii was
easy to make, telling CBS that he "got there too late" when his mother died of
ovarian cancer in 1995 at 53, and wanted to make sure "that I don't make the
same mistake twice." The Kansas-born Dunham and her husband, Stanley, raised
their grandson for several years so he could attend school in Honolulu while
their daughter and her second husband lived overseas. Her influence on Obama's
manner and the way he viewed the world was substantial, the candidate himself
told millions watching him accept his party's nomination in Denver in August. "She's
the one who taught me about hard work," he said. "She's the one who put off
buying a new car or a new dress for herself so that I could have a better life.
She poured everything she had into me." Obama's nickname for his grandmother was
"Toot," a version of the Hawaiian word for grandmother, tutu. Many of his
speeches describe her working on a bomber assembly line during World War II.
Madelyn and Stanley Dunham married in 1940, a few weeks before she graduated
from high school. Their daughter, Stanley Ann, was born in 1942. After several
moves to and from California, Texas, Washington and Kansas, Stanley Dunham's job
landed the family in Hawaii. It was there that Stanley Ann later met and fell in
love with Obama's father, a Kenyan named Barack Hussein Obama Sr. They had met
in Russian class at the University of Hawaii. Their son was born in August 1961,
but the marriage didn't last long. She later married an Indonesian, Lolo Soetoro,
another university student she met in Hawaii. Obama moved to Indonesia with his
mother and stepfather at age 6. But in 1971, her mother sent him back to Hawaii
to live with her parents. He stayed with the Dunhams until he graduated from
high school in 1979. In his autobiography, Obama wrote fondly of playing
basketball on a court below his grandparents' 10th-floor Honolulu apartment, and
looking up to see his grandmother watching. It was the same apartment Obama
visited on annual holiday trips to Hawaii, a weekling vacation from his campaign
in August, and his pre-election visit in October. Family members said his
grandmother could not travel because of her health. Madelyn Dunham, who took
university classes but to her chagrin never earned a degree, nonetheless rose
from a secretarial job at the Bank of Hawaii to become one of the state's first
female bank vice presidents. "Every morning, she woke up at 5 a.m. and changed
from the frowsy muu-muus she wore around the apartment into a tailored suit and
high-heeled pumps," Obama wrote. After her health took a turn for the worse, her
brother said on Oct. 21 that she had already lived long enough to see her
"Barry" achieve what she'd wanted for him. "I think she thinks she was important
in raising a fine young man," Charles Payne, 83, said in a brief telephone
interview from his Chicago home. "I doubt if it would occur to her that he would
go this far this fast. But she's enjoyed watching it." Stanley Dunham died in
1992, while Obama's mother died in 1995. His father is also deceased. When Obama
was young, he and his grandmother toured the United States by Greyhound bus,
stopping at the Grand Canyon, Yellowstone Park, Disneyland and Chicago, where
Obama would years later settle. It was an incident during his teenage years that
became one of Obama's most vivid memories of Toot. She had been aggressively
panhandled by a man and she wanted her husband to take her to work. When Obama
asked why, his grandfather said Madelyn Dunham was bothered because the
panhandler was black. The words hit the biracial Obama "like a fist in my
stomach," he wrote later. He was sure his grandparents loved him deeply. "And
yet," he added, "I knew that men who might easily have been my brothers could
still inspire their rawest fears." Obama referred to the incident again when he
addressed race in a speech in March during a controversy over his former pastor,
the Rev. Jeremiah Wright. "I can no more disown him than I can my white
grandmother," he said. Dunham was "a woman who loves me as much as she loves
anything in this world but who once confessed her fear of black men who passed
her on the street." Still, much of who Obama is comes from his grandmother, said
his half sister. "From our grandmother, he gets his pragmatism, his
levelheadedness, his ability to stay centered in the eye of the story," she told
The Associated Press. "His sensible, no-nonsense (side) is inherited from her."
Madelyn Lee Payne was born to Rolla and Leona Payne in October, 1922, in Peru,
Kan., but lived much of her childhood in nearby Augusta. She was the oldest of
four children, and she loved to read everything from James Hilton's "Lost
Horizon" to Agatha Christie's "The Murder of Roger Ackroyd." Dunham and her
husband were "vicious" bridge players, according to her brother Jack. After
retirement, the two of them would take island cruises and do little but play
bridge and a more difficult version called duplicate bridge.